When did james safechuck realise his abuse?

So, when did james safechuck realize his abuse?

Sorry, that is a big question which my small brain is not capable enough to answer because there are so many many versions to that, I will put the proof & different statements in front of you, you can decide!!

2013 - in oprah interview she asks james when did you REALISE your abuse? And james says that he realsied his abuse in 2013 ONLY AFTER SEEING wade rosbon giving an interview in TV  (he infact goes on giving more detailed explanation to oprah! also he had been telling this adamantly for these last 6 years!!)

2009 - dan reed (leaving neverland director who is speaking for james & wade now) james confided to his mother about his abuse in 2009, but he was terrified that she might tell to someone so he made her swear to keep it as a secret!  

2005 -  Also dan reed in another interview, james told his mother in 2005 that michael abused me!! (click on the image below)

so when did james realise his abuse? 

is that

Option a : 2005

Option b : 2009

Option c : 2013

also not to mention james mother's bad acting telling she danced in 2009 when michael died! but Mrs.Stephaine your son did not realize his abuse untill 2013 then how is it you danced in 2009???

The truth is all these people did not have much time to make their story about how james realised his abuse, so they ended up making a story which had lot of flaws and now the director and actors are struggling & trying hard to hide this! 

But its too late! had james really realised his abuse then there would ve been only one version & there would ve been no confusion at all as when he realised his abuse!! very simple!